Unlock Unshakable Confidence: Ancient Yoga Secrets for Modern Life

 
 

Ever wonder how some people seem to radiate confidence effortlessly? The secret isn’t just mindset — it's discipline and routine. The Yoga Sutras, written by Sage Patanjali over 5,000 years ago, hold timeless wisdom that still applies today. By embracing key practices like loving-kindness, mindful movement, and intentional breathing, you can build a powerful foundation for inner strength and self-assurance. Ready to unlock your true potential? Here's how ancient wisdom can guide your modern journey to confidence.

 

1. Discipline & Routine For Confidence

The text of The Yoga Sutras is ancient and is written by my man (or woman), Sage Patanjali over 5,000 years ago. The teachings still hold true, even now, in modern times. The Yamas are the first five staples to support the structure within your true self. The Niyamas are commitments with the discipline.

2. Commit To Loving Kindness 

Let go of what isn’t serving you. Nurture what is serving your life, and give with the overflow.

3. That Flow, Though

Asana is a yoga posture. The breath is unrestricted and rhythmic - if we can’t breathe, the purpose is defeated. A morning routine of asana finds the body limber for the day, as well as circulates lymph and blood throughout the body. This means positive heart health, metabolism, joint mobility, and confidence. Asana brings us back into body-mind coherence.

4. Breathe

Everything is connected to your breath. Shallow breathing triggers the sympathetic nervous system, also known as fight or flight. This releases poisonous hormones as a warning sign to our body, and we deteriorate when they are released regularly. Deep belly breathing nourishes and creates a feeling of abundance. When in a state of abundance, we can breathe more easily. How we breathe creates our life.

5. Giving is Life

Contribution is one of the six basic human needs, not want, but need. When we give unconditionally, it releases the feel-good hormone oxytocin, and we actually feel better than if we were to receive it. Our brain rewards us for giving. The feel-good wave lasts for a couple of hours after the fact. When giving up a bad habit, it needs to be replaced with something else or the habit comes back with shame sprinkles. Replace the addiction with giving. It will last longer, and the act of kindness will inspire others to do the same. You are an example. Be the voice of change.

 

Transform Fear Into Peace: How Ahimsa Guides You to Heal, Let Go, and Embrace Life

Ahimsa translates from Sanskrit to non-striking. It is a natural human compulsion to want to strike out (or inward) when fear appears. Remember, things are coming from you—everything, from your cell phone screen to the environment breathing you now.

Ahimsa is the first Yama Yogi Virtue. The Yamas are 5 ethical commitments to follow to be a real yogi. Ahimsa is the practice of being careful not to harm others, including every living creature since all beings feel pain and wish to avoid it.

Why a cell phone screen?

Vitality is present when in alignment with our values. The outside environment is a reflection of what is going on inside of us. This consciousness awareness connects to our breath and the perception of the world at this very moment in time. The state of wellness is the result of practicing Ahimsa.

Things run smoothly and work with ease. Reactions are a form of fear. A misguided worldview can block vital life forces, causing dis - ease. One reaction can ruin a life.

This begins to show up in small things like a crack in your cell phone screen. When ignored, it doesn’t go away but snowballs in the subconscious space to revisit us later.

I am enough, ah hung.

Homework

On The Mat

Becoming the lotus flower. Set your intention to become the lotus flower. Lotus flower grows from the dirtiest part of the pond, through the waters, and towards the light. When lotus blooms, the aroma spreads throughout the land as an offering. The most fragrant, sweet aroma.

Bring attention to the rhythm of your breath. The rhythm of your breath creates the aroma we share with the world.

For The Day

Let go of anger. Today, let us weed our inner garden, instead of reacting to something we don’t like and perceive as outside of self. Today we choose to let go of our normal pattern of doing something. We are all here so we are not alone. Who are you grateful, for today?

Unlock Your Truth: Mastering Satya for Authentic Living, Powerful Speech, and Deep Connection

The practice of never giving anyone even a slightly different impression of what we know to be true. Satya is the third Yama Yogi Virtue, or commitment to ethical living. Satya is refraining from separateness caused by idol (meaningless talk), gossip & harsh words such as complaining or cursing. Grounded in truth and not desire, our actions result in a fruitful nature. Truth in essence does not change, holds no distortion, and is pure. Thoughts that pass through the mind do not define us unless we identify with them. Observe the thoughts with loving awareness.  Then we move on to the next Yama Yogi Virtue ~ letting go.

Steady in our feet.

We each hold a unique gift that only you can offer this world. Align your words to the language of your thing. When fully established in Satya, one is completely rooted in truth, words become powerful, resulting in fruit immediately ~ speech is profound and vast.

Courage is easy.

Decide to face the pain and align to your unique truth. May the truth set us free. Truth in nature resonates deep, timeless, and belonging. Practice with awareness of what resonates and what does not.

On the mat.

Singing is a practice of Satya. Your journey and wisdom are a virtue and are felt through our voice. All the experiences we have been through show up in our voices. This is our unique gift to the world and only you can offer it. So what could it be?

For today.

When the ego gets in the way of the heart, mental afflictions can rise to cloak the truth with a veil of illusion. Honor the light within. True service inspires the essential birthright in others. Your light reveals the truth in others.

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Satya must filter first through Ahimsa, as truth in nature is non-striking. Satya is the ability to transcend upward - everything is coming from you.

Let Go to Grow: Mastering Aparigraha for Non-Attachment, Joy, and Mindful Living

The practice of avoiding possessiveness of people and things by intentionally recognizing and trying to stop our feelings of displeasure when others get something they want. Letting go for joy and mindful living.

When fully established in non-attachment, one understands nature and one’s birth. Aparigraha is the yogi virtue of Non-Attachment, removing any sensory satisfaction about the problems of others.

The skin of the body is living awareness. 

The body and mind naturally organize what is helpful to the body and what is not. The skin then releases toxins through oil and sweat, regulating homeostasis within.

What is a toxin?

A toxin is a poisonous substance that causes disease. Let go of the toxic energy that no longer serves. When we practice yoga, we identify the toxin to form an intention at the beginning of class. By doing this, we can release the toxic thought patterns and the bodily pain associated with the thought pattern. Pancha Maya Kosha is the five layers of conscious awareness. The solution is found within the layers during a yoga class.

Self-care nurtures the mind and body, creating a foundation for self-love and belonging. As humans, when we feel insecure, we tend to try to control and cling to everything and everyone around us. When fully established in Aparigraha, one understands nature and the purpose of one’s birth.

How do you take care of the world around you?

By releasing control of the outcome and contributing positively to the world as the seasons change. Aparigraha is not playing favoritism with experiences. With each season, there is a lesson. The study is only visible when in an observer state of mind. The seat of aparigraha allows congruency, a steady state necessary to see what is valuable and virtuous. Releasing weight- creating value.

Generosity is giving AND receiving, but only when necessary. 

What is received will be gone at some point, suffering comes from the attachment to that thing. Seeking and accepting more than what one needs is a natural human compulsion, and with the law of change, extra things become baggage. Adapt to change by observing the breath during the process of giving and receiving.

On the mat.

Breathwork practice can relax the experience during the process. A sophisticated focus forms once you realize that the environment is breathing you. 

For today.

Decisions shift to support the reality of the new mind, body, and spirit. Give and receive only what will add value to life. The compulsion of hoarding, possessiveness, and craving for something outside of self is a cycle that will too, pass. 

With patience, presence, and gratitude.

Forgive. Breathe. Live.

 

Musee de L’Orangerie - Paris, France 2018

Forgive others

forgive yourself

breath how you want to live

observe nature,

the change of seasons

Nothing lasts forever,

even the rainy seasons

so like the harsh weather

this too will pass

find gratitude

when beauty

is present

in your life

 

Asteya and the Flow of Change: Embracing Self-Wholeness and Vitality Through Mindful Practice

 

North India Yoga Studio in construction phase

 

Asteya

The practice of honoring other people’s property by not using it or taking it w/out their permission, which includes taking care of the earth for the sake of future generations.


A seed goes through many changes before it blooms into a flower. The dynamics of the mind through the weather of change form the person you are today.

Asteya channels through the second Yama, Satya, truthfulness. Let go of the desire to be others, because you already are others. Have you ever seen a dog chase its tail?

Change is going to happen in every aspect of your life.

Asteya is the practice of managing change by disciplining the desire to take from others. When in fear, it is a natural human compulsion to reach for things outside of self to fill a perceived void. The void does not exist. Spin vitality here with daily mat practice. You are whole and complete as you are.

Now, it is time to listen to your inner guidance. Do this by honoring what you do have. The journey you are on can only be understood by you. When you try to hide who you are, you deny the world the miracle of you. The ego can be fun. Self-expression is the ego and how you share your gifts with the world. Life is for celebrating.

On the mat.

Diamond in the Rose. Find a comfortable seat. Bring the palms together, to touch. Tuck the thumb between the palms. Press palms to the chest. Close your eyes with focus on the space between the eyebrows. At your heart, a rose, and in the center a sparkling diamond. With the wish to end suffering for all living beings, “om mani padme hum.”

Sanskrit is a wind language that flows easily with mantras. However, if you would prefer, you may use the English version, with Latin roots.

Translated from Sanskrit, “I sing the diamond in the rose.”

For today.

Beginner: make a gratitude list.

Advanced: Tune into your inner winds and observe what moves them. First the body, and what moves the body. Second the breath, and what moves the breath. Third, the winds and what brings excitement/aversion. Fourth, the perception you have of the thing and how your perception of the thing moves you. The fifth layer is your center, enjoy the bliss body. Offer liberation to others.


Embracing Unchanging Truth: Living Authentically by Aligning Mind, Speech, and Actions

 
 

Satya

The practice of never giving anyone even a slightly different impression from what you know to be true. The most serious lie is to make false claims about spiritual realizations, but truthfulness also includes avoiding divisive talk, harsh words, and idle talk.


True essence is unchangeable, with no distortion, and is pure. Living a truthful life without harming others while thoughts, emotions, and moods change constantly. The truth is your essence never changes. So often we identify with our irrational thoughts. With yoga, we learn to ALLOW mind fluctuations by breathing into the discomfort - to identify and face it. Pay attention to where discomfort is sourced. If an unpleasant emotion comes up: see it, face it, let it go, for freedom. Take responsibility for the feeling and KNOW that you are not your mind. When there is identification with a negative thought, it weakens us and after neural pathways form from the repetitive thought, we become sick. Have you ever looked in the mirror and not recognized the reflection?

Give others the courage to live their truth - inspire them by not comparing yourself to them. You are created in a beautifully, unique way, so follow your intuition and trust that you are proper, just as you are. Based on your thoughts, speech, and actions, your perception of reality is formed. When truth and action meet, the fruit is powerful and innovative to the great wonders of life.

Think before speaking and consider the consequences of action. Forgive others because they are a reflection. Authenticity is forgiving yourself and speaking with conviction, through the eyes of a student of life. Accept strengths and weaknesses without judgment. With explanation, we find justification and quantification. This does not bring truth in certainty but a label. Certainty comes from you. Stop reaching outside of yourself, because you have everything you need inside. Be true, be you.

When you give yogi truth, you get yogi truth. When the ego gets in the way of the heart, mental afflictions form in fear. Go back to the drawing board, everything is coming from you! Satya, truth, travels through the first yama of non-harming, Ahimsa. Live authentically by aligning your mind, speech, and action to your awesome authentic self.


Truth is youth
uplift the gift
the journey
Get off the gurney

In order to trust
let go of lust
plastic
elastic
bend
to mend

see the tree
I am you
you are me